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What to Look for in a High School Sports Program

Bill Jackson April 3, 2018November 29, 2018 Choosing schools
photo: evaluate high school sports program

What to look for in a high school sports program? Three things: The opportunity to play, the quality of teaching and learning, and the values that undergird the program.

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You Have More School Options than You Might Think

Bill Jackson April 3, 2018November 29, 2018 Choosing schools
Photo: good school

Most families live in communities with multiple good schools and multiple pathways to gain admission. While finding and getting into a good school can feel overwhelming, it’s usually possible.

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A Quick Introduction to the World of Private Schools

Bill Jackson April 3, 2018November 29, 2018 Choosing schools
photo: private schools

The world of private schools is diverse and sometimes surprising. Here are 10 facts you might not know that may be helpful as you consider your school options. Unless otherwise noted, all data is provided by the federal government for

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How Much Does Class Size Matter?

Bill Jackson March 27, 2018December 5, 2019 Choosing schools
large class size

Parents are naturally attracted to small class sizes because it seems more likely that the teacher will be able to manage the classroom well and will be able to get to know and serve each child well. But is this the right way to think about class size? How much does class size really matter?

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What Does “Student Centered” Actually Mean?

Bill Jackson March 27, 2018November 29, 2018 Choosing schools
Student centered classroom

It’s all the rage these days for schools to claim they’re student centered. But what does this phrase actually mean? In my experience, schools may be talking about three different but related ideas when they use the phrase “student centered.”

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What Matters Most About Schools: What Young Adults Say

Bill Jackson March 27, 2018November 29, 2018 Choosing schools
What Matters Most About Schools: What Young Adults Say

Listening to what young adults say about the Raise Ready Kids Big Three School Quality Factors: Program, Teaching, and Culture.

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Do High-Performing Kids Suffer When They’re in Low-Performing Schools?

Bill Jackson March 21, 2018October 8, 2018 Choosing schools
Do High-Performing Kids Suffer When They’re in Low-Performing Schools?

When might it make sense to send a smart kid to a lower-performing school and when might it not? This is ultimately a personal decision and there is no one right answer. However, let me share five of my own considerations, which may be helpful to you if you’re grappling with this question.

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How a Diverse School Can Make Your Child Smarter

Bill Jackson March 13, 2018November 29, 2018 Choosing schools
[Diverse students]

As you evaluate your school options, you should know there are cognitive as well as social benefits to your child being in a diverse school because diversity forces people to do more cognitive work than they otherwise would.

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When Choosing a School, Try the Rooney Rule

Bill Jackson March 13, 2018November 29, 2018 Choosing schools
[Former Steelers owner Dan Rooney]

The Rooney Rule requires NFL teams to interview nonwhite candidates when they hire a new head coach. Similarly, when choosing a school for your child, you should consider at least one school that pushes the limit of your comfort zone.

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Let Benjamin Bloom Help You Evaluate Schools

Bill Jackson March 6, 2018November 29, 2018 Choosing schools
[chart of Bloom's Taxonomy

If you’re trying to evaluate schools — whether you’re looking for a school for your child or wondering about the quality of your child’s current school — you need to know about Benjamin Bloom and his famous taxonomy of learning: remembering, understanding, applying, analyzing, evaluating, and creating.

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Natural Discipline Is the Best Discipline

Bill Jackson March 6, 2018September 21, 2020 Emotions and behavior
[photo: child reaching toward hot stove]

The classic example of natural discipline at work is when a child learns to not touch a hot stove by … touching a hot stove. Lesson learned!

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When Evaluating a School, Try to Identify Its Core Values

Bill Jackson February 18, 2018November 29, 2018 Choosing schools
Photo: KIPP SHINE Prep

You can learn a lot about a school by trying to observe its core values in action. Look on the playground and in the hallway. How are students spending time? How are parents and visitors treated?

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How to Raise an Interesting Child

Bill Jackson February 13, 2018October 8, 2018 Parenting philosophy
How to Raise an Interesting Child

Who gets hired? Increasingly, the interesting candidate. Who has the more interesting life? Well, that’s easy: the interesting person. So let’s forget about smart or creative or good for a few minutes. How to you raise an interesting child? Here’s a five-part formula.

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With Parenting, the Best Defense Is a Good Offense

Bill Jackson February 13, 2018October 8, 2018 Parenting philosophy
[kids holding plants]

Over the years, I’ve noticed differences among parents that I believe explain some of the differences in how kids are doing in their teen years. The differences I observe have more to do with how parents play offense than how they play defense. Let me explain.

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What’s Most Important When Evaluating School Quality?

Bill Jackson February 6, 2018November 29, 2018 Choosing schools
[teacher with students]

When evaluating a school, I believe in stepping back and considering what I call the Raise Ready Kids Big Three School Quality Factors: Program, Teaching, and Culture. More than anything else, these three factors determine school quality.

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Childhood Matters Just as Much as Adulthood

Bill Jackson November 22, 2017June 20, 2019 Parenting philosophy
NIght Sky

Take a moment to ask yourself: What amazing powers does your child have already? What discoveries are they making? What matters to them?

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“Wow, How Did You Do That?!”

Bill Jackson November 22, 2017October 8, 2018 Emotions and behavior
Image: question mark and explacamtion point

The next time you’re about to offer praise to your child, consider a question or observation as great way to not only share your approval but also promote your child’s awareness of their own accomplishment and their interest in building on it.

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Nature Versus Nurture No More. Now It’s the Nature-Nurture Loop

Bill Jackson November 10, 2017October 8, 2018 Brain development

“He’s stubborn, just like you!” your friend says. And you wonder: Is that because of the genes you share with your child? Or did he learn it from you? It’s the old “nature versus nurture” debate.

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What It Means to Raise Ready Kids

Bill Jackson November 10, 2017October 8, 2018 Parenting philosophy

Parents can’t ensure their children’s success, but they can raise ready kids by helping them acquire knowledge, skills, character, and a sense of purpose.

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Will My Child Remember the Time I Lost My Cool?

Bill Jackson November 6, 2017October 8, 2018 Emotions and behavior
When I lose my cool

Just as your four-year-old will not remember that wonderful visit you had at Grandma’s house, she also will not remember the time you were so frustrated, stressed, or sleep deprived that you screamed at her.

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How Do You Know if You’re Doing a Good Job as a Parent?

Bill Jackson November 6, 2017October 8, 2018 Parenting philosophy
Raise Ready Kids

If you are doing well or are committed to getting better at these seven things, then I’d say the answer is yes, you are doing a good job as a parent.

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To Help Your Child Develop Responsibility, Ask Questions

Bill Jackson October 28, 2017October 8, 2018 Emotions and behavior
Denzel Washington and Jovan Adepo in "Fences"

What we really want is for our children to make good decisions and act responsibly on their own. Right now, though, they’re still in the process of developing the skills they need to be able to make good choices. They need our help.

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Connection Before Correction

Bill Jackson October 28, 2017December 13, 2021 Emotions and behavior
Connection Before Correction

The idea is simple: Before correcting your child, take time to connect with him or her.

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How Mark Zuckerberg Played His Way to Success

Bill Jackson October 19, 2017November 6, 2020 Play
Mark Zuckerberg and his wife Priscilla Chan playing with his child.

Whether one is 4, 12, or 40, “play” is not the opposite of “work.” It’s actually the process by which we discover what delights us and what we really care about.

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Build a “Chocolate Factory” in Your Home

Bill Jackson October 19, 2017February 22, 2019 Play

With a Chocolate Factory, plenty of free time for messing around, and a little encouragement, who knows what planet your children will find themselves on — it’s bound to be good!

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In Praise of (Brutal) Board Games!

Bill Jackson October 13, 2017October 8, 2018 Play
"Sorry! Is my all-time favorite because it’s the most brutal. I have a fairly well-developed upper limbic system, but sometimes I struggle to keep it together when my daughter sends me home when I’m just about to win — for the gazillionth time. And she’s never sorry at all!"

When you and your child can laugh about all the setbacks and injustices that these games visit upon us, well, I think you’ve all learned something worthwhile. I’m still a work in progress.

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Teach Your Children How to Pretend Play

Bill Jackson October 13, 2017April 6, 2020 Play
Teach Your Children How to Pretend Play

When early childhood educator Erika Christakis began teaching preschool in 2001, she was troubled to find that some children at her school were not into pretend play. They could run, throw a ball, do all sorts of art projects, discuss

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Children’s Play Areas Are For … Children!

Bill Jackson September 30, 2017October 8, 2018 Play

I’ve been in a few homes with play areas for children that look something like this: I’ve been in other homes with play areas for children that look more like this: They’re both gorgeous. But they’re very, very different! Take

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To Jump-Start Pretend Play, Teach Kids About the Adult World

Bill Jackson September 30, 2017October 8, 2018 Play
Teach your child about the adult world

Pretend play is terrific for children, helping them learn self-regulation, language, and social skills. To inspire pretend play, teach children about roles in the adult world and help them get started with a few simple props. Carla, mother of four-year-old

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Why Pretend Play Is Your Preschooler’s Best Teacher

Bill Jackson September 23, 2017October 8, 2018 Play
Pretend Play is a preschooler's best teacher

Pretend play is not only delightful, it’s also an extraordinarily valuable learning experience for children.

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If I Say “Day,” You Say “Night”

Bill Jackson September 23, 2017October 8, 2018 Brain development

Executive function is a foundation of learning and life success. You can’t learn if you can’t pay attention, remember, or resist temptations.

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What If I Don’t Want My Child to Be Just Like Me?

Bill Jackson September 23, 2017October 8, 2018 Emotions and behavior
{Photo: child holding apple]

You can help your child learn to manage their emotions by arranging experiences that stretch their abilities just the right amount.

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If You Fight in Front of Your Kids, Make Up in Front of Your Kids

Bill Jackson September 15, 2017December 13, 2021 Emotions and behavior
If you fight in front of your kids, make up in front of your kids

Our kids are seeing us fight, but they’re not seeing us make up. They’re seeing the conflict, but they’re not watching how we resolve the conflict.

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The Magic of First Principles Parenting

Bill Jackson September 15, 2017October 8, 2018 Parenting philosophy

Using first principles parenting, we can trade off conflicting values and make the right decision for our children and ourselves.

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Make Empathy a Reflex

Bill Jackson September 15, 2017October 8, 2018 Emotions and behavior
Empathy

You know empathy is important for you and your child, but is it really something you can get better at? Yes, it is! Here’s one tried-and-true method.

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Child’s Play Is Serious — Don’t Interrupt

Bill Jackson September 8, 2017October 8, 2018 Play
Children playing

TV background noise harms children. Turn off the TV when your child is playing nearby.

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What’s in the Crayon Box? Paper Clips, of Course!

Bill Jackson September 8, 2017December 10, 2020 Brain development
A child's perspective

Perspective-taking means recognizing that other people have thoughts and feelings different from our own — and being able to imagine what they might be. Your preschooler is just beginning to learn perspective-taking. You can help by encouraging them to think

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What Preemies Teach Us About Managing Stress

Bill Jackson September 8, 2017October 8, 2018 Emotions and behavior

Premature babies are under enormous stress. When doctors observe closely, they see that preemies are actually providing clues about how adults could help them manage their stress. You can do the same thing with your preschooler. Observing your child closely,

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How to Help Your Child Develop Her Memory

Bill Jackson September 2, 2017October 8, 2018 Brain development
Help improve memory

  Your child began to develop a simple form of memory in the womb, before 30 weeks of gestation. Fetuses as young as 23 weeks can recognize a loud sound made close to the mother’s abdomen. How do we know?

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To Help Your Child Manage Emotions, Show Him How to Do the Limbic

Bill Jackson September 2, 2017October 8, 2018 Emotions and behavior
Manage emotions

Our behaviors and decisions arise out of a kind of conversation between two parts of our brain: the lower limbic and upper limbic systems. The quality of that conversation has everything to do with the kind of life we will

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